December 4, 2024

Embrace the Chaos?! Find Balance in Your Holiday Routine

A photo of a Christams chaos

The holiday season is such a special time, but it’s definitely a season of shifting routines and adjusting expectations! If you're someone who thrives on routine, rolling with the ebbs and flows of Christmas can feel both exciting and challenging.

With work and school holidays, hosting duties, visiting others, and a busier wardrobe (no uniforms), it’s natural for the usual structure to get a little disrupted. Here are some thoughts on how to embrace the change while keeping some balance:

1. Identify Non-NegotiablesThink about the routines or rituals that ground you, like a quiet morning coffee, a walk, or an evening wind-down. Protecting even one or two can help maintain a sense of normalcy amidst the hustle.

2. Plan FlexiblySketch out the key activities—hosting, visiting, school-free days—but leave room for adjustments. A rough outline can help you feel prepared without being too rigid.

3. Outsource or SimplifyHosting? Focus on a few crowd-pleasers rather than trying to do it all. Visiting? Consider batch-prepping outfits so you're not scrambling last minute.

4. Celebrate the ChaosLean into the fun of an unpredictable schedule! A little messiness often brings unexpected moments of joy.

5. Give Yourself PermissionIt’s okay to pause some routines or pare them back. This season doesn’t have to be picture-perfect—just meaningful and enjoyable for your family.

How are you feeling about all the adjustments ahead? Would it help to create a "priority list" for the season to make sure you're balancing the excitement with the need to recharge?

The holiday season is such a special time, but it’s definitely a season of shifting routines and adjusting expectations! If you're someone who thrives on routine, rolling with the ebbs and flows of Christmas can feel both exciting and challenging.

With work and school holidays, hosting duties, visiting others, and a busier wardrobe (no uniforms), it’s natural for the usual structure to get a little disrupted. Here are some thoughts on how to embrace the change while keeping some balance:

1. Identify Non-NegotiablesThink about the routines or rituals that ground you, like a quiet morning coffee, a walk, or an evening wind-down. Protecting even one or two can help maintain a sense of normalcy amidst the hustle.

2. Plan FlexiblySketch out the key activities—hosting, visiting, school-free days—but leave room for adjustments. A rough outline can help you feel prepared without being too rigid.

3. Outsource or SimplifyHosting? Focus on a few crowd-pleasers rather than trying to do it all. Visiting? Consider batch-prepping outfits so you're not scrambling last minute.

4. Celebrate the ChaosLean into the fun of an unpredictable schedule! A little messiness often brings unexpected moments of joy.

5. Give Yourself PermissionIt’s okay to pause some routines or pare them back. This season doesn’t have to be picture-perfect—just meaningful and enjoyable for your family.

How are you feeling about all the adjustments ahead? Would it help to create a "priority list" for the season to make sure you're balancing the excitement with the need to recharge?

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